The way you map the emotional phases of change is such a gift for women who think something’s “wrong” with them when their body panics after a brave decision.
That pull back toward damaging stability is so often just a nervous system craving predictability, not a sign the new path is misaligned. Naming destabilization, grief, and recalibration as *part* of growth (not proof they chose wrong) is exactly what helps them stay with the process long enough for the new identity to feel like home.
Thank you for reading! I really appreciate you taking the time!
And I also agree, the pull back to damaging stability is our ancient wiring. Back to a time where physical safety was priority. In today’s world, where actualization and purpose is becoming the priority, it serves to understand our wiring. ❤️
The way you map the emotional phases of change is such a gift for women who think something’s “wrong” with them when their body panics after a brave decision.
That pull back toward damaging stability is so often just a nervous system craving predictability, not a sign the new path is misaligned. Naming destabilization, grief, and recalibration as *part* of growth (not proof they chose wrong) is exactly what helps them stay with the process long enough for the new identity to feel like home.
Thank you for reading! I really appreciate you taking the time!
And I also agree, the pull back to damaging stability is our ancient wiring. Back to a time where physical safety was priority. In today’s world, where actualization and purpose is becoming the priority, it serves to understand our wiring. ❤️